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Frequently Asked Questions

 

Domestic/ Dating Violence

Q: What are warning signs of dating or domestic violence?

A: Jealousy, isolation from friends and family, constant criticism, monitoring your location or communications, threats, and physical harm can all be warning signs of abuse.

 

Q: Can emotional or verbal abuse be considered domestic/ dating violence?

A: Yes. Abuse isn’t always physical. Emotional verbal, psychological, and financial abuse are all harmful and should be taken seriously.

 

Q: What should I do if I think I’m in an unhealthy or abusive relationship?

A: You are not alone. Talk to a confidential Victim Advocate, utilize Off-campus resources or visit CAPS for safety and support.

Sexual Assault

Q: What is sexual assault?

A: Sexual assault is any sexual act or attempt to obtain a sexual act by force, threats, coercion, or without consent.

 

Q: What if I was drinking or using substances? Can I still report?

A: Yes. Being under the influence does not make it your fault. The University prioritizes your safety.

 

Q: Do I need to report sexual assault to get help?

A: No. You can still receive support, advocacy, and medical care without filing a formal report. Confidential resources cOn-Campus Resources & Off-Campus Resources)  are available

 

Q: What if I’m not sure what happened to me counts as sexual assault?

A: If something made you feel unsafe, uncomfortable or pressured, or hurt, you deserve to talk to someone about it. You don’t need to have all the answers to ask for help.

 

Q: What if I said “yes” at first but changed my mind?

A: Consent must be on going, If you no longer felt comfortable or safe, it’s okay to withdraw consent and it should be respected. You still have the right to support and care.

Stalking

Q: What is stalking?

A: Stalking involves repeated (at least 2 instances) of unwanted attention or contact that causes you to feel intimidated, afraid, harassed or threatened. This can happen in person or online.

 

Q: What are examples of stalking behavior?

A: Repeated calls, texts, DMs, showing up uninvited, tracking your location, or monitoring your social media

 

Q: What should I do if I’m being stalked?

A: Trust your instincts. Document what’s happening and seek support from Campus Safety, Title IX or a confidential Victim Advocate.

Support & Reporting

Q: What if I’m not ready to report but want to talk to someone?

A: You can talk to a confidential Victim Advocate or CAPS. You’re in control of what happens next.

 

Q: Can I get help even if the person who harmed me isn’t a student?

A: Yes. Support is available regardless of who the person is. We care about your safety and well-being.

 

Q: Will my parents or friends be told if I report?

A: No. Reports are kept private, and you decide who to involve. Confidential resources do not share your information without you permission.

 

Q: What kind of help can I get if I’ve experienced domestic violence, dating violence, sexual assault or stalking?

A: You may be eligible for academic flexibility, safety planning, no-contact orders, housing changes and other supportive measures.

 

Q: Is this just about women? What about male, non-binary, or LGBTQ+ survivors?

A: Anyone can experience domestic violence, dating violence, sexual assault and stalking. Services are inclusive and available to all genders and identities.

Additional Questions

If you have additional questions not listed here, please reach out to:

hhartung@laverne.edu.