If a friend confides in you about experiencing domestic violence, dating violence, sexual assault, or stalking, your support can make a meaningful difference.
Bystander Intervention:
Bystander intervention is when you step in or get help if you see someone in a risky or harmful situation. You don’t have to put yourself in danger, small actions can make a big difference.
- Check in: Ask your friend if they’re okay.
- Get help: Find a trusted person, campus staff, or call emergency services if needed.
- Support: Listen, believe them and connect them to resources.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: What can I do if my friend is in an abusive relationship or was assaulted?
A: Believe them. Don’t pressure them to take action. Instead, listen, offer support, and help them get connected to confidential resources if they’re open to it
Q: Should I report something I saw or heard about a friend?
A: If you’re worried about someone’s safety, it’s okay to seek guidance from a confidential resource first, they can help you explore options without starting a formal process.
You don’t have to have the “perfect” words. Being present, empathetic and compassionate matters the most. For more support or more information about confidential resources, explore our Resources tab.