What is Domestic Violence & Dating Violence?
Domestic Violence:
Domestic Violence is a pattern of behavior in a current or former intimate relationship, family relationship, or cohabitating relationship that is used to gain or maintain power over another person. It can include physical, sexual, emotional, or financial abuse, as well as threats, intimidation and coercion.
Dating Violence:
Dating Violence is a type of domestic violence that occurs within a dating or romantic relationship. It involves behaviors that are intended to control, intimidate or harm a partner, including physical, sexual, emotional or digital abuse, and can occur in both casual and serious relationships.
DV Myths & Facts
What are signs of DV?
You do not have to report your experience to the University or other legal authorities o get support. Victim Advocate are here for you whether or not you choose to report. The choice is yours.
Support Measures:
- Safety Planning: Work with an advocate to create a plan that includes safe places to go. items to keep ready, and steps to take in an emergency.
- Emergency Contacts: Identify trusted friends, or family who can check in or support you in urgent situations.
- Counseling & Victim Advocacy: Free & confidential support is available through House of Ruth Victim Advocates or through CAPS.
Reporting Measures:
Domestic Violence Advocates:
-If you decide to report to Title IX, Campus Safety, or Law Enforcement, a domestic violence victim advocate can accompany you. Victim Advocates are confidential, trined professionals who provide support, guidance, safety planning, and access to resources. Communications with Victim Advocates are protected under California Law (Penal Code 679.05 and California Evidence Code 1037.5).
Legal Protection:
- Campus No-Contact Orders: Title IX can help with “No Contact” orders on campus. Contact the Title IX for details.
- Community Restraining Orders: A Domestic Violence Advocate can help you file a restraining order. For more info visit: DV Restraining Order or contact a Domestic Violence Victim Advocate.
Self-Care & Healing:
Healing after harm isn’t one-size-fits all. Some days feel harder than others and that’s okay. Small steps matter. Here are a few ways students often care for themselves:
-Talk it out: Vent to a friend, counselor, or Victim Advocate.
-Rest & Recharge: Nap, keep a regular sleep schedule, or give yourself a lazy day.
– Move your body: Walk around campus, go to gym, or try yoga/meditation.
-Find calm: Journaling, music, or deep breathing can help.
-Stay connected: Spend time with friends who make you feel safe and supported.
-Set boundaries: Say “no”, mute notifications, or step back from draining situations.
You are not alone. Support is available whenever you need it.
Additional Resources
– YWCA : “Young Women’s Christian Association”- Domestic Violence Shelter & Hotline
-Womens Law.org : Legal Resources